It seems many people are unaware they can control their own lives and have the power to have, do be, anything they want. Or they have control over their lives but something or somebody won’t let them; in other words this means they aren’t really getting the fact that they do have control over their life, not anything or anyone else.
Where you are now in life is a direct result of you and your beliefs about life. I have a little secret to share with you, what you think and believe determines your success and growth throughout life. If you don’t think you’re in direct control of your life than you aren’t, if you do think you are in control of your life than you are.
Just like you are what you eat, you are what you think and believe. Other people will have control over your life if you think you’re not in constant and complete control of your life every moment you are alive. Your boss, employees, spouse, kids, relatives, friends, the government: whoever or whatever you think and believe is control of your life will continue to be control your life if you think that. Until you consciously change that belief you will never be in control of your life.
This is a not so secret secret; it’s uncommon common sense. Yet, so many people are going through life unconsciously and do what everyone else is doing and continue to think they are not in control of their lives. They are just living what is day to day without stopping and thinking about why they are living what is. Is it any wonder why so many people are unhappy and unfulfilled these days? Don’t live unconsciously, take the reigns of your life into your hands and steer your life in the direction you want it to head in.
Thinking you have no control over your life is like thinking you have no control over a car while driving it. If you still don’t think you complete control over your life just think back to this morning. You most likely got out of bed to do your daily activities or go to work. You have the choice to get out of bed or stay in bed all day. You have a choice to go to work or not go to work. You have the choice to do everything you do throughout the entire day. No one else makes these choices for you. They can certainly recommend you do something, but you ultimately have the power of choice in your hands. If you find yourself getting mad at your boss because of something he did or said, you made the choice to go to work. That’s fine; no one told you it doesn’t have to be this way, until now.
It can be another way; your life can be the exact way you want it to be. This is the secret of life most people don’t know about, they aren’t aware of this simple universal fact. If you’re not happy with your life circumstances, know and believe you can change those circumstances. You are the creator of your own life. You will change them if you change your focus from “I have no control over my life” to saying “I control my life and everything and everyone in it.” Once you say or think that you focus begins to shift. What you focus on expands, and you get more of the same of what you focus your energy on. The control in your life will increase if you focus on the belief “I control my life.” It all starts with awareness.
If you think you’re in complete control of your life you start to believe it after a few days. Then you start thinking of the things you want from life. What kind of people you want to be surrounded by, what kind of car you want to drive, the house you want to live in, the things you would rather do on a daily routine. After asking those questions to yourself you become attracted to the things and people you want and they in turn become attracted to you. This is because of the Law of Attraction, another universal law that controls our lives.
The Law of Attraction simply states like attracts like. People who know they are in control of their lives are attracted to and surround themselves with others who know they are also in control of their lives. In turn the Law of Attraction also works for people who don’t think or aren’t aware they can control their lives and they will only get more of the same results they always got until they change their belief to “I control my life, no one else.”
You are in control of your life and you can change your life. I know that; I believe you can. Do you know believe you can? Whether you think you can or you think you can’t, you’re right. Which belief will you make?